Partner support programs have multiple applications. It can heal struggling relationships and help avoid separation or divorce. It can support one partner during a crisis and help them to steer their unwilling partner towards accepting help. It can teach one partner how help the other to resist behaviour or substance use relapses. Finally, it can alleviate the anguish of a person devastated by an abandoned relationship.
Help for partners who need support
With our experience and outreach, we can advise you about partnership support programs and refer you to reliable service providers.
What a relationship partner is
In the context of relationship therapy, a partner typically refers to a spouse, husband, wife, life-partner, life-companion, betrothed, fiancé, cohabiting or romantic partner who is emotionally involved with a patient. Business partners with purely financial or commercial interests are usually excluded, although, in appropriate circumstances, they may participate in certain aspects of counselling.
Partnerships can be healed
Many people enter into emotional partnerships, only to experience unacceptable behaviours by their partners after they had formed a loving, caring or committed bond with them. The negative behaviour or substance use disorders of their partners can acutely compromise them, emotionally and physically. Some people hastily advise separation or divorce, but relationship harmony can often be restored.
Partner support programs work
Relationship discord usually affects more than two people. When the main figures cannot reconcile, the ripple effect of continued distress affects other people too. When partners start confiding in random friends and relatives, it alienates them even more. Sometimes it evolves into critical situations that seem unsolvable. Partner support interventions and programs can often salvage relationships.
Realistic partner support programs
You can not completely convert someone’s personality, and neither should you allow such attempts on your personality, but struggling relationships can be amicably salvaged from the effects of disruptive habits, as well as behaviour and substance use disorders, and can help to prevent relapses.
Instead of arguing, educate yourself and find compassionate ways to solve the problems. It paves the way to change and is also a healthy strategy for your own wellbeing. It does not mean you should become an enabler or codependent, or condone abusive behaviour. It means finding an informed and mutually acceptable approach to conflict resolution.
Concentrate on achievable solutions. All relationships contain differences that cannot be changed. Often, these are indelible personality characteristics and it is unrealistic to expect someone to change them. At best, you can compromise to limit their impact. Alternatively, you have to accept them. Some problems may be solvable, but beyond your skill level, and for these you will need help.
You can find help in mutual-support groups or professional therapy, both of which can be attended with or without the initial participation of your partner and can prepare you for bringing about the desired changes.
Mutual-support groups consist of people with similar problems who advise and encourage each other. They can accommodate both partners, but if one partner refuses to take part, the other can join a group specifically intended for individuals with afflicted partners. You can learn from peers in the group and find productive ways to steer your partner towards accepting therapy.
There are various entities that offer therapeutic treatment and a host of programs that can be used to heal relationships, as well as the comorbid conditions that frequently accompany it. Service providers include psychologists, psychiatrists, public clinics, private therapists and rehabilitation centres.
Even when relationships have been abandoned, the emotional distress can be alleviated and the person can be better equipped for future relationships.
Call us about partnership support
To solve personal relationship problems, you have to take action that is realistic and achievable and will deliver a positive outcome. To achieve that we often need advice from experienced, trustworthy sources.
Make the connection to start healing disruptive relationship problems – call us for discreet advice about partner support programs. We can also locate appropriate service providers that fit your circumstances or refer you to reliable sources for further assistance.
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